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“Why Won’t He Marry Me?”


You cannot make a man marry you, nor can you make him love you., these two, very important instincts should be initiated by the man.

One of these questions came to me via email from a loyal reader:

Tracy I’ve been with this man for over a year and I have been everything he wants and more. I keep myself up and I work out and I look damn good whenever we hit the town and I present myself like a lady. I made it very clear to him that I’m not trying to do this dating thing for too long because I’m not getting any younger and he isn’t either!

He’s 30 and had his time to play around in the streets with the chicks who came before me but now it’s time for him to put a ring on it. I’m about to be 28 and I have a very strict timeline that I’ve told him about and he acted like he was okay with it. I want to be engaged by the time I’m 29 and married by 30 I’ve said it over and over but he hasn’t bought it to the forefront of discussion as a matter of fact he avoids it.

I don’t want to waste my time but he needs to step up to the plate. I have a job, I don’t have kids and not to blow my own horn but I’m physically attractive. He’s educated and got a good job so I don’t understand the hold up. He needs to put a ring on it asap. How do I get this message across to him because I can’t wait much longer. Your advice would be appreciated.

This letter is so simple and easy…The decision to marry has to be initiated by the man, in Proverbs 18:22, it states: “Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing”, your man has to recognize that you’re his good thing!

If he doesn’t, then you have to move on and not waste anymore time in a relationship with him that will not herald the results that you want. And this simply means, that you’re not pressuring him into a decision but you both don’t want the same things.

There are so many other issues I touched on with this reader, who failed to mention one very important thing: LOVE – marriage is serious and should not be ‘entered into’ lightly but should mean for the rest of your life…I wished her luck and advised her to be prayerful.

What do you want to tell her? She’ll be reading your comments below.

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“According To Halle Berry, Her Baby Daddy”


Called her a nigger!

Halle wants Gabriel Aubrey (her baby’s daddy), to “do as she say but not as she does”.

When Halle hired Gabriel as their daughter’s nanny while she was on film location in Africa, Gabriel said, Halle would be gone with her new boyfriend for days while he cared for their daughter. Yet when he started dating Kim Kardashian, Halle flipped out on him and ordered him to choose between Kim and his daughter, Nahla.

Gabriel refuses to allow Halle to rule or run his life with such stipulations therefore, he filed to establish paternity so visitation could be ordered by the court and Halle wouldn’t be able to control him using their daughter Nahla in the future.

For the most part, since Halle made a statement through her publicist, she said in addition that Gabriel has called her the N-word and a fucking bitch.

Messy.

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BHM: “As We Celebrate Our Own”


February is black history month and we’ve decided to do something a little different this year. Instead of recognizing those African-American pioneers who are dead, we are going to recognize those whom “we know” are alive.

Pioneers are a people, person or a group of people who are the first to lead or develop something new. So this month to commemorate black history month, every Monday or Friday, I will be highlighting those individuals who have accomplished great things as African-American pioneers.

I want to especially acknowledge those loyal “CEO blog readers” out there that are entrepreneurs, who are pioneering their way to the top in their fields of expertise. I will highlight your business here on this blog if you can present your business to me in a reputable and professional fashion.

Just send us an email at: ceoblog@optonline.net

Let’s celebrate each other as we acknowledge ‘a history’ so rich with talent and full with potential.

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“Halle Berry In Custody Battle With Her”


Baby daddy…

The 44-year-old actress, is planning to face off in court with her ex, model Gabriel Aubrey, over custody of their 2-year-old daughter, Nahla.

Berry pulled out of a film production in New York this week, due to pending custody litigation involving her daughter,” her publicist told the Daily News in a statement Monday.

“She has attempted to resolve these custody issues amicably with her daughter’s father, Gabriel Aubry, directly, but given his lack of cooperation, Halle has no choice but to seek swift judicial intervention.”

“Halle has serious concerns for her daughter’s well-being while in the care of her father for any extended period of time and is prepared to take all necessary steps to protect her.”

I wonder if Halle is re-thinking and regretting the choices she made in picking a father for her child.

Berry and Aubry, split last April after four years together and seemed to have an amicable breakup, even being spotted together taking Nahla on joint excursions. But in December, Aubrey, 35, officially filed for joint custody via court papers and requested to have his name added to Nahla’s birth certificate.

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“Parents File $120 Million Lawsuit”


The parents of Danroy “DJ” Henry have file a $120 million dollar lawsuit against the Pleasantville police department.

You remember this story, the Pace University football player, who was killed by Pleasantville police for no apparent reason.

Well according to police accounts of what happened that night are varying and it has set off a great deal of controversy in the town of Pleasantville, New York, where Henry was shot outside a nightclub.

The incident began on the night of October 17, when police were called to investigate a disturbance outside a bar in the suburb of Thornwood, which is located right near the Pace University campus.

Officer Aaron Hess and some of the witnesses on the scene say that, Hess shot at Henry’s windshield because he was struck by the car as Henry drove away from the scene. But other witnesses are saying that Hess’ use of force was unjustified and the family is seeking a murder indictment against him.

Hess’ lawyer claims that his client was thrown on the hood of the car by the impact and had no other choice but to shoot. It has also been reported that the 20-year old Henry had a blood alcohol level above the legal limit for driving.

There are others on the scene who argue that Hess did not have to shoot Henry. The attorney’s involved are seeking an independent investigation into the matter.

Witnesses say that, Henry was following police instructions when he pulled away from the scene and that Hess did not tell him to stop the car before he shot him.