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“When Boaz is BROKEN” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Broken is a state of despair we’ve all been in at some point in our lives or another. It’s the mindset of having given up all hope and becoming ineffective in life. This toll weighs heavier on men than it does women.

Women don’t hurt any less than men, but our hearts are generally more open. We are naturally more vulnerable, so it’s often easier for us to start over once we have healed. Men, on the other hand, take losses like deaths, especially if it’s a real death because they never fully recover. They can move on, but a piece of their heart is always missing. This can pose many issues in the relationship.

But what about when your man is broken, your potential other? How do you deal with him? In fact, how can the relationship last or even survive? Is the man even worth the love? At what point do we think “fuck it” and just give up?

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for my Conversation with Mr. Ken Brisbon (pictured above), Founder of “The Game is SOLD, NOT Told” for our discussion on “When Boaz is Broken, a Women’s guide to dealing with BROKEN men.

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‘Relationship jumpers’, tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


fall-in-loveYou know the ones, they jump from one relationship to the next without fully healing from the unhealthy relationship they were just in? And “boom” two days or two weeks after a break-up, they’re in a whole new relationship.

Those are “Relationship Jumpers“… People who don’t give themselves time to heal emotionally, physically and psychologically. They want instant move-ons, minus the real time it takes to heal from a broken or ended relationship.  

Join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via blog talk radio for my commentary on this subject. Hope to meet you on the air!!!

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“Sex does not equal love” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


2ccb6d3921396a5fa430c7f7ebe4b442These women posting statuses and photos online hoping that someone will notice them are really pathetic. Sistahs posing half naked with their titties hanging out and plenty of cleavage displayed IS NOT cute. Booty shot pics in thong lace underwear and scantily clad lingerie are all a part of the attention campaign.

The women you see in these television ads or hear on the radio telling you that in order to be loved you have to show off your body and then give it away, are leading so many astray. The actions and words of these people women hold in such high esteem have embedded their thinking into believing this type of exposure is normal.

But there’s a hard-honest TRUTH!!!

Tune in tonight on Conversations Of A Sistahwith Host, Tracy L. Bell at 6:30 p.m. EST for her topic:Sex does not equal love

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“Love vs. Dopamine and Knowing The Difference” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


vtd_cos-2Dopamine relationships are doomed to failure. Dopamine is the chemical that mediates pleasure in the brain and love is not always pleasurable.

Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is a profound sense of responsibility and respect for another human being. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!

Lust is NOT LOVE, LUST is however, an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. It is an uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite or a strong aggressive craving. And with Valentine’s Day upon, the talk of love, the questions of love and the mixed feelings of love that has flooded my inbox prompts the topic of discussion: “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference

Tune in “LIVE” at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” with Host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference“?……

We’ll be taking calls in our studios on this topic at 917-889-7872, don’t forget to press “1” for the host.

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Black Women Need Not Apply…Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Some black men don’t want to date, marry or fall in love with a black woman. And as shocking as this may sound, believe it or not, some men prefer to date outside of their race. There are several reasons for this and for the most part, it’s self-hatred.

In her written blog post, Tamyara Brown states:

“I live in a world where pale skin is accepted and dark skin isn’t for women. I don’t want my daughter from the day she is born called ugly. It is why I rather marry a Latina, or Asian woman she is guaranteed to be beautiful.”

tamyara_brownTune-in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via blog talk radio, as I sit down with author, blogger and writer Tamyara Brown (pictured left) as we talk about her powerful written piece “Black Women Need Not Apply“.

she concludes:

“I realize after reading this passage from the letter society, ourselves as African American people have followed this to the very letter. As a little girl growing up I can admit I thought being lighter was better. No one liked my skin complexion. In our defense we are trained more than we think. How can we feel good about not liking what God has created so beautifully?”………Tamyara Brown

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