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Why Do People Play Games in Relationships? on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


All of us at one point or another in our lives play psychological games. Whether consciously or unconsciously, whether at home, at work, among strangers, or among friends, we have all engaged in games that are sometimes beneficial and useful, and other times detrimental to our health and the well-being of others.

Psychological games are often rewarding to one party and harmful to the other, creating exhausting and messy dynamics in every kind of relationship. Sometimes we are so deeply ingrained in the cat-and-mouse games that define our relationships that we aren’t even aware of what is happening.

So why do people play games in relationships? And how can you identify whether you are instigating the games, or serving as the prey of them?

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“When Boaz is BROKEN” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Broken is a state of despair we’ve all been in at some point in our lives or another. It’s the mindset of having given up all hope and becoming ineffective in life. This toll weighs heavier on men than it does women.

Women don’t hurt any less than men, but our hearts are generally more open. We are naturally more vulnerable, so it’s often easier for us to start over once we have healed. Men, on the other hand, take losses like deaths, especially if it’s a real death because they never fully recover. They can move on, but a piece of their heart is always missing. This can pose many issues in the relationship.

But what about when your man is broken, your potential other? How do you deal with him? In fact, how can the relationship last or even survive? Is the man even worth the love? At what point do we think “fuck it” and just give up?

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for my Conversation with Mr. Ken Brisbon (pictured above), Founder of “The Game is SOLD, NOT Told” for our discussion on “When Boaz is Broken, a Women’s guide to dealing with BROKEN men.

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“Mental Illness is Real” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


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 Mental Illness is a very taboo topic in the Black Community and so many people who need help don’t know how to access it because of the exposure of its reality. The only way to remove the stigma associated with mental illness is to start conversations within our communities.

Some would argue that mental illness is not a real disease and, in fact, doesn’t exist at all. Each mental disease case has its own type of evidence and can eventually lead to suicide.

brittany_dickey_headshotTune in “LIVE” on “Conversations Of A Sistah” with Host Tracy L. Bell as she sit down in the studio with her special guest, Writer and Blogger “Brittany Dickey” (pictured left) for a discussion on her story from “Broken to Bold“. Discussing her journey from attempting suicide to finding peace, joy and good mental health.

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“Sex does not equal love” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


2ccb6d3921396a5fa430c7f7ebe4b442These women posting statuses and photos online hoping that someone will notice them are really pathetic. Sistahs posing half naked with their titties hanging out and plenty of cleavage displayed IS NOT cute. Booty shot pics in thong lace underwear and scantily clad lingerie are all a part of the attention campaign.

The women you see in these television ads or hear on the radio telling you that in order to be loved you have to show off your body and then give it away, are leading so many astray. The actions and words of these people women hold in such high esteem have embedded their thinking into believing this type of exposure is normal.

But there’s a hard-honest TRUTH!!!

Tune in tonight on Conversations Of A Sistahwith Host, Tracy L. Bell at 6:30 p.m. EST for her topic:Sex does not equal love

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The photo depicted above was randomly chosen and in no way related to the write-up of this post.

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“Love vs. Dopamine and Knowing The Difference” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


vtd_cos-2Dopamine relationships are doomed to failure. Dopamine is the chemical that mediates pleasure in the brain and love is not always pleasurable.

Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is a profound sense of responsibility and respect for another human being. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!

Lust is NOT LOVE, LUST is however, an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. It is an uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite or a strong aggressive craving. And with Valentine’s Day upon, the talk of love, the questions of love and the mixed feelings of love that has flooded my inbox prompts the topic of discussion: “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference

Tune in “LIVE” at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” with Host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference“?……

We’ll be taking calls in our studios on this topic at 917-889-7872, don’t forget to press “1” for the host.

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