A narcissist is a man (or woman) who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance. Narcissist think it’s all about them.
Narcissists are usually well-dressed, handsome, beautiful, charming, funny, and extremely outgoing.
The problem begins when you fall in love with one.
To your friends and family, he’s handsome, charming, funny and outgoing. But to you he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
Narcissists seek you out if you have money, power and/or respect.
They also seek you out if you are nice, compassionate, sweet and generous, because these are qualities that they will never possess.
Narcissists eventually see these qualities in you as a weakness. Underneath his or her charming exterior most narcissists are envious, needy, insecure, depressed, self-centered and extremely selfish.
No matter what you do, they will never see you as their equal.
The more you try to please narcissists, the more they will abuse you mentally, and sometimes physically.
The reason I used a pic of Jay Z and Beyonce for this post is because they are both narcissists who feed off each other.
Jay Z needs Beyonce more for her money, power and respect in order to achieve the power and respect that he now has.
Jay Z will never allow Beyonce to be greater than him. An example of this is, the fact that his book “Decoded” barely mentions Beyonce even though this book is supposed to be about his life and Beyonce is his wife.
The reason Beyonce is barely mentioned in the book is because Jay Z (a classic narcissist) knows she would steal all of his thunder, and his small ego just wouldn’t tolerate that.
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