"Love and War", Interracial Relationships, Love, Love & Marriage, Love & Relationships, Prejudice

Interracial Marriage…How do you feel about it in 2016?


Inter_racial_RelationshipsIn 1958, Richard and Mildred Loving, a black woman and a white man were arrested in their home — in their bedroom — in Caroline County, Virginia. Both had been sentenced to a year in prison because their marriage violated the state’s anti-miscegenation statute and the Racial Integrity Act of 1924, which prohibited marriage between people classified as “white” and people classified as “colored“.

The Supreme Court’s unanimous decision determined that this prohibition was unconstitutional, reversing Pace v. Alabama (1883) and ending all race-based legal restrictions on marriage in the United States.

The decision was followed by an increase in interracial marriages in the U.S., and is remembered annually on Loving Day, June 12. It is the subject of an upcoming movie to hit theatres in November 2016.

Already meeting Oscar buzz at the Cannes film festival,  It’s absurdly early for Oscar to be sure, but it’s also not hard to see why. The movie’s writer-director Jeff Nichols dramatizes one of America’s most seminal civil rights Supreme Court cases, Loving v. Virginia, but he does so by focusing on the quiet, heartbreaking love story at its center: the marriage of Mildred and Richard Loving.

Does love indeed conquer all? And how do you feel about interracial marriages and relationships?

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Dr. OBARI Adeye CARTMAN, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Dr._Obari_Cartman.jpg.2Relationships are a necessary means in our lives, good bad or indifferent, we are constantly striving to make them better. All in all, the bottom line is, a good relationship need:

  • respect
  • honesty
  • trust
  • love
  • companionship
  • mutual emotional support
  • intimate expression
  • economic security

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via Blog Talk Radio for special guest, Dr. OBARI Adeye CARTMAN, author of “Lady’s Man“, an African-centered book on consciousness and western psychology knowledge to help men become a true lady’s man.

The “conversation link” in this post makes it possible to access the show.

Don’t be square, meet me on the air!

 

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Love Dr Pamela Smith on the next “Conversations Of A Sistah”


_MG_8055Relationships can be a trip as well as challenging. They can also be pain saking and filled with a whirlwind of emotions. But with romance comes love and with love, reality. The reality of the two imperfect individuals striving in a relationship.

Life is not perfect and neither are people, so how do we cope in love and relationships?

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via blog talk radio as I talk about Romance, Love and its Reality in Relationships with my special guest, love Dr. Pamela Smith.

A certified Loveologist and Master Love Coach from Loveology University, Dr. Smith (pictured above), assist individuals and relationship seekers in keeping love and achieving successful loving relationships.

If you’re in love you won’t want to miss this show!

The “conversation links” in this post make it possible to access the show. 

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Promoting Positive Black Images on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


5317677ccbdd3054228c87ef835dd0a5I’m going to keep it real by stating; there are many negative images of dysfunctional relationships in the breakdown of the black family unit. Especially images of healthy relationships of love and marriage amongst black men and women in today’s society. There are more single black woman as heads of households then ever before, as society depicts lack of commitment as a reality for black men.

With the growing number of shows like Empire, Scandal and the negative influences of reality television; positive black images has lost its luster since the days of “A Different World”, “Family Matters” and “The Cosby show”. Let’s face it, gone are the days of The Brady Bunch images on television.

Fed up with the pervasive negative images of black marriage in the media, Ronnie and Lamar Tyler started one of the largest independent African American marriage and parenting sites on the web to combat the negativity of black love and marriage in the media, by focusing on positive messages about marriage.

Ronnie%20Tyler%201Join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for my special guest Mrs. Ronnie Tyler (pictured left), founder of “Black and Married with Kids: A Positive Image of Black Marriage“. As we discuss she and her husbands campaign for promoting love and positive images in a black family unit.

Follow the “Conversations link” in this post to access the show.

See you on the air but in the meantime sound off here!

Beyonce, Infedelity, Jay Z, New Music

It’s “NEVER OK” for a Man (married or single) To Have a Side Chick


beyonce-lemonade-hbo-compressedI woke up to a flood of email messages this morning from blog readers and show listeners wondering what my thoughts and opinions were regarding Beyoncé’s new music “Lemonade”.

And based upon what I’m being schooled on is, Beyonce pouring out her frustration and bitterness in a collection of songs laced with lyrics of infidelity and deceit.

The gist of all the buzz is, Beyoncé’s husband of six years, rap mogul Jay Z cheated on her when she makes reference to Jay Z‘s mistress “Becky” in her song “Sorry,” which ends with the line, “he better call Becky with the good hair.” Also referencing his mistress being a white woman.

The woman identified as Jay’s mistress is a fashion designer by the name of Rachel Roy. Roy is believed to be the catalyst behind Solange‘s (Beyoncé’s sister), infamous elevator assault on Jay Z in 2014. Surveillance video inside the elevator captured Solange wildly punching and kicking Jay Z as Beyonce stood by and watched with detached amusement.

My thoughts are #1, I can’t believe ‘good hair’ amongst women is still being referenced in 2016, along with the notion that women have to compete with white women for a man, their man or any man for that fact.

#2, That women are so damn desperate for a man, that they would actually think or accept it being ok for him to be with you and a side chick? What the fuck is wrong with women today? If he can’t  commit to you, kick his disloyal ass to the curb. Point, blank period!!

A male associate of mine said to me this morning, “Beyoncé is a strong woman to stay with Jay Z” Really? This has absolutely nothing to do with her strength but the message she’s sending to young woman regarding their self-worth. If you know he’s cheating and got a side chick, it’s not love it’s stupidity.

There you have it, my  2 cents and opinion on the matter..