Conversations Of A Sistah, Love

‘Love vs. Lust’ Know The Difference…Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


 

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Sexual attraction is notorious for obliterating common sense and intuition in the most sensible people. Why? Because lust is an altered state of consciousness programmed by the primal urge to procreate.

Pure lust is based solely on physical attraction and fantasy–it often dissipates when the “real person” surfaces. Being in love doesn’t exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other.

Love is an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is a profound and caring attraction. On the other hand, lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature.

Join me tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live“, as I explore this topic which often leave many perplexed and even bewildered. However, one should know the difference.

Are you in love or in lust?

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See you on the air but first sound OFF here!!!

Interracial Relationships

Omari Hardwick Lashes Back And Defends His wife!


Women everywhere were crushed when actor Omari Hardwick was photographed in public with his interracial family over the weekend. The handsome heartthrob who appears in the Starz hit drama series “Power” and BET’s hit series “Being Mary Jane” was spotted having lunch in Tribeca.

Hardwick was not happy when black Twitter disparaged his masculine looking wife and called her “ugly”, so he clapped back on a twitter rant in her defense.

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The price of fame.

CEO's Blog, Conversations Of A Sistah, What she said

If Your Pastor is single…he’s OUT OF ORDER!! Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


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Why is a single pastor OUT OF ORDER? Because marriage is considered a normal state, the married pastor has the protection of his wife. Not his mother, lover or undercover brother but the protection of his wife.

Your married pastor is supposed to have the status of a leader in the home, the fulfillment of the marital relationship and thus the freedom to relate to the congregation as one who is already committed within the covenant of marriage. Your pastor should also be one who is able to serve as a model for other men within the congregation and the watching community. If he (your pastor), is NOT operating within all of these and more, he’s OUT OF ORDER!!!

In 2012 I semi-addressed this topic in a blog post as to why I would not belong to a church where the Pastor is single. Why? Because I believe in this particular leadership position, one ought to have a partner to be an example for its members that; love, faithfulness and heterosexual relationships are God’s ultimate plan for man.

Join me tonight at 8:00 P.M. on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” for my commentary “If Your Pastor is single…he’s OUT OF ORDER”!! 

In the meantime, sound off here and join me on the air!!

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Action thriller, New Movie Release

No Good Deed…Extremely unrealistic!


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Yesterday I saw the crime thriller directed by Sam Miller and written by Aimée Lagos, featuring Idris Elba and Taraji P. Henson.

Idris Elba (Colin Evans) who is a convicted killer seeking parole and when he’s denied, he kills the two deputies transporting him back to a Tennessee prison and escapes without one all-out police alert or news bulletin for his capture. I mean NO ONE is looking for this convicted cop killer who shows up in Atlanta a day or so later and succeeds at killing his ex-fiancé.

After crashing a truck he had stolen in a very bad rain storm, Colin stumbles upon a home where Taraji P. Henson (Terry) lives with her husband and two children. Only Terry’s husband, played by Henry Simmons (Jeff), is away on an alleged weekend birthday trip with his father. Terry who is a “work at home” lawyer and established prosecutor, is so caught off guard when this tall, dark, handsome stranger rings her doorbell, that she not only leave him at her open front door several times but after inviting him in; she leaves him sitting alone in her dining room while she wonders off continuing her routine while tending to her children. 

So what is so unrealistic about this film? Let’s see:

  1. A black man killing two deputies, then escaping on a transport back to prison would’ve been caught by sun down, because his face would’ve been plastered all over the news on every channel.
  2. The first place authorities scope is the home of anyone the escape convict is looking to avenge.
  3. Colin’s ex-fiancé laid dead without anyone ever noticing she’s missing until the end.
  4. Terry opens her front door to a stranger without question or reluctance on a dark stormy night, even though she’s home alone with her two children. 
  5. Terry with so much trust and confidence invites this fine stranger into her home and carelessly leave him alone several times as if he’s a trusted friend. 

Terry’s behavior in the movie annoyed the hell out of me, simply because she was not only careless while jeopardizing the safety of her children in her home but she was trusting and distracted based upon Colin’s looks. Colin’s presentation blinded her to the fact that, she never suspected he could be a killer. The fact that she was extremely naïve in this situation as a lawyer and prosecutor with experience in the behaviors of a killer, made it all the more unrealistic. 

There were several cries to protest this movie because it supposedly portrayed black men in a negative light. Colin a convict who brutally kills his ex-fiancé who happens to be white. Terry a desperate, attention seeking, deprived, stay at home mom, so distracted to get her groove on that she jeopardizes the safety of her children. I didn’t see the reason for the boycott of this film at all, I found it entertaining and suspenseful with a great storyline, however unrealistically scripted. The producer paired two awesome actors in an intense dramatic thriller as characters who vaguely resemble anything realistic to take their roles seriously.    

Beyonce, Lawsuits

Matthew Knowles Fathered a 2nd child!


A second woman has come forward and claimed Mathew Knowles, 63, fathered her child.

A new report claims that former model TaQoya Branscomb, 30, has a child that DNA tests showed is a 99.9% fathered by Matthew’s Knowles, which means Beyonce, 33, and Solange Knowles, 28, have a second sibling that they knew nothing about. This new information brings Matthew’s total love children to a count of TWO.

How embarrassing! 

Matthew was forced to claim a son, Nixon, who was conceived while he was still married to Beyonce and Solange’s mom, Tina Knowles. Tina then filed for divorce after 31 years of marriage.

TaQoya’s child belongs to Matthew Knowles, therefore she will be seeking child support from Beyonce’s former manager but likely will not receive the same amount due to the fact he is no longer making big bucks on behalf of Beyonce.

Beyonce was forthright in cutting managerial ties with her father, this way she is not doling out cash in support of her father’s whorish and philandering ways.